I used to struggle with my self-confidence when it comes to meeting and dating other guys. I never had the courage to speak up when I saw someone cute. I felt lots of pain and worthlessness. I didn’t feel like I could go on much longer since I didn’t have any experience in the dating realm, and I was afraid about getting older. Zach and Andrew helped me shift my mindset in ways I didn’t think was possible. They helped me learn that I’m capable of love and being loved. 

 Today, I’m happy to announce that I’ve gone on several successful dates and I am currently in a happy and healthy relationship of 4 months with my boyfriend. I greatly enjoy spending quality time with him, and I know he feels the same way. We talk every day, and things are going very smoothly.

I would highly recommend working with Zach and Andrew if you are a gay man struggling with the gay dating world and finding a happy and healthy relationship, no matter how inexperienced or “old” you are. I would say that getting help from them could be one of the best decisions you’ve ever made.

 I personally wouldn’t be where I am today without their help and I owe them my happiness.

Justin Trulear

Age 26

When I first connected with Zach and Andrew at age 63, I was sitting in a non-ending loop… deeply wanting connection… a boyfriend to share my life with, and continuous self-sabotage preventing it all. I had a voice in my head that said NO one would want to be with me. The Gay Man Thriving program helped me realize that people actually DO like to be with me and helped me finally stop the negative self talk. And now I’m so happy with my boyfriend — he’s great. And most importantly, I’m much more at peace with myself and no longer feel worried about the future.

Bryan Harold 

Age 63

Zach and Andrew helped me believe that love was possible for me too, which helped me feel more confident to be open hearted, lean into growth, and take risks I used to avoid. This resulted in more self-love and acceptance, and enjoying standing strong in my value. Now, I am probably dating more than at any other time in my life - and I’m 64! I would strongly recommend working with these guys. They’ve got a surprisingly vast amount of knowledge about the psychology of growth and personal development.

Michael Gregory 

Age 64

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I used to always feel like I was coming up short in life and in my relationship. With Andrew and Zach’s help, I’ve seen great progress in areas of my life where I was stagnate even after years of psychotherapy. Now, I’m present and appreciative in my relationship with my partner of 15 ½ years and things feel so much better. At 52, I’m no longer afraid that the best parts of my life are behind me.

Steven Preuss 

Age 52

I used to get really nervous and anxious when it came to talking to guys I was interested in. I felt like no matter what I tried, things wouldn’t work out in my love life. Zach and Andrew have helped me permanently change my mindset. Now I can see things from many different angles that I used to not be open to… and I feel so much more optimistic than ever before. I’m no longer in my head so much and I’m now confident when it comes to talking to guys I’m interested in.

Ben Kietzman 

Age 25

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THIS PROGRAM COULD TRANSFORM YOUR LOVE LIFE FOREVER 

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Phase 1: Releasing Negative Energy Blocks 

Rapidly Transform Your Love Life and Build the Relationship of Your Dreams

In our programs, gay men become their most confident, vibrant selves so they can attract the loving relationships they’ve always wanted. 

Imagine Letting Go of Your Nagging Doubts...

...that you don't really belong in the gay community
(because of your age, how you look, where you live, or what you believe)

...that your internalized trauma (from church, school, or family) has broken you
and made you unfit for love

...that no one wants your "baggage"

What if you could make those doubts disappear, for good?

And what if you could finally let yourself freely love and be loved?

Energetic Attraction System Breakdown: 

Release your fears of rejection and judgment

Silence your inner critic and learn how to stop self-sabotaging

Let go of pain from the past (forgive yourself and others)

Banish your trust issues and fear of being alone

Learn how to feel attractive in your body

Build a true sense of self-worth

Step into your most confident self

Phase 2: Constructing Unshakeable Confidence 

Phase 3: Building Lasting, Passionate Connections 

Adopt attractive communication skills

Deepen and grow your connections

Become a high-vibe influencer

You'll work one-on-one with us, in our community with other like-minded guys, and with our easy-to-use video modules to master these three core phases... creating space for love connections and deeper relationships all along the way.

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WHO WE ARE

ZACH BULLS & ANDREW SARTORY

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It’s time to reclaim your passion, purpose, and joy, through the power of meaningful, intimate relationships.

Who is Energetic Attraction Coaching for?

● If you’re tired of being single or having a track record of one crappy relationship after another... 

● If you WANT support from the BEST Gay Dating & Relationship Coaches out there... 

● If you’re ready to learn new concepts, strategies and ideas and are WILLING to step outside of your comfort zone... 


...Energetic Attraction Coaching is for YOU!

THIS PROGRAM COULD TRANSFORM YOUR LOVE LIFE FOREVER

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ENERGETIC ATTRACTION 

COACHING SUMMARY

● Energetic Attraction System videos, Handouts, Worksheet Assignments, and Trainings 

● Guided Hypnotic Healing Experiences by Audrey Sussman, PhD 

● 4 Months Weekly Energetic Attraction Mentoring Calls (with Zach or Andrew) 

● Personalized Energetic Attraction Assessment with Results and Group Debrief 

● Full Access to Gay Dating Success System Materials 

● Weekly Gay Dating Success Coaching Calls with GDSS Coach 

● Guided Meditation Recordings by Andrew to Release Common Negative Energy Blocks

● Weekly Energetic Progress and Accountability Check-In 

● Exclusive Energetic Attraction Coaching Facebook Group 

● Gay Man Thriving Live Ticket 

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Zach Bulls, PCC, CPC, ELI-MP 

Zach Bulls, a professional certified coach and mentor, used to represent the epitome of hopelessness and frustration with the gay dating world.

He struggled with substance abuse, and believed his only value was tied to his physical appearance. 

Since then, Zach sought support to break the patterns of not feeling good enough. And after many years of trial and error, was able to turn his life around. 

He’s committed to helping other gay men do the same with the Gay Man Thriving programs.

Zach has spent over 900 hours coaching gay men 1-on-1 or in a group setting.

Andrew Sartory, M.Ed. 

Andrew Sartory, a major personal development enthusiast, has always had huge desires to have a big impact in the world by helping other people.

But he struggled in his romantic relationships… consistently getting into long-term relationships that ultimately ended in heartbreak… and would feel desperate and frustrated with the dating apps.

It wasn’t until he kept growing in his relationship with Zach, and naturally started helping his health clients in their relationships… that he realized he could have the biggest impact in the world by helping others in their own love lives… and that talking, teaching, and writing about love and relationships is his biggest passion.

"I've made more progress in this program in just three and a half months than I did in 10 years of therapy."

George Allen

"My fear around going on dates is diminished. I'm more present. I'm more attentive and I feel like I'm more in tune to the world around me."

Brent Hoffman

"I'm in my first relationship with a man and it's pretty awesome. I never really thought I could feel this way, feel as confident as I am."

Brian Delaney

"I have a lot more self confidence than I've ever had before and I feel a lot more strength in myself that I didn't really know existed."

Ted Smith

 "Since joining this program with Zach and Andrew is I have gone on more dates than I had before."

Jesse Matthews

"I am happy to say that five months into the program, I actually am in the dream relationship that I've been looking for my whole life."

Rob Metzen

"I'm so much happier now. I'm more confident, I'm more secure, and I'm more independent than I've ever been."

John Hanbury

"I'm showing up better, I'm showing up happier, and I'm showing up more open. I get to live in the moment."

Craig Brucato

"I've been offered solutions and encouraged to try things along the way. I'm not afraid to engage with people here and there and everywhere."

Jody Dalton

Don't Just Take it From Us...

Here’s just a taste of the trainings, bonuses, and resources that will be yours inside EAC:

Energetic Attraction System Videos, Handouts, Worksheet Assignments, and Training 


Powerful Healing and Hypnotic Experiences by Audrey Sussman, PhD 

Help heal old wounds and shift your energy at subconscious levels. Chip away at the walls you’ve constructed, and access your most vibrant energy. 

● Reprogram your brain for positive, high energy thinking 

● Heal your inner child 

● Learn to embody traits of those you find attractive

4 Months of Weekly Energetic Attraction Mentoring Calls

Personalized Energetic Profile Assessment, Results, and 90-Minute Group Debrief

This is at the core of what Zach does as a core energy coach. After you complete your assessment, Zach will analyze your results and review them with you.  

Full Access to Gay Dating Success System 

● Learn all the foundational skills and tools to make dating feel fun and easy, the way it should be! 

● Get more dates online without the endless chatting 

● Learn how to meet a guy in person and easily get a date 

● Learn how to master the 1st, 2nd, 3rd dates, and beyond 

● Learn how to maintain a successful dating life

● Get weekly video calls for ongoing feedback and support

Weekly Gay Dating Success Coaching calls with GDSS Coach

Anytime you want a boost to your dating life, whether you want to get more dates or make sure your dates are going better, these are here to ensure dating is never again a struggle. 

Guided Meditation Recordings by Andrew to Release Common Negative Energy Blocks

Get access to guided meditation recordings, created by Andrew, that will relieve your anxieties about dating, relationships, the future, and more, and help you feel more present, motivated and confident.

Exclusive Energetic Attraction Coaching Facebook Group

So much magic happens in this group! You’ll bond with other men sharing from the depths of their hearts, as they post their responses to assignments. You’ll see men celebrating they had the best date ever and are now in the best relationship of their life. And you will form deep and trusting friendships with these like-minded guys.

Weekly Energetic Progress and Accountability Check-In

This won’t be a program you’ll sign up for and hide in the background! Every week you will check in with the group, and give us an update on how things are going and where you need support. This weekly self-reflection helps hold you accountable to continued growth throughout the whole program and is a great place to get more peer support!

Ticket to Gay Man Thriving Live 

The largest event in the world for growth-oriented gay men wanting to feel more love, meaning, and connection in their lives. Make new friends, have tons of fun, and deepen bonds with the friends you’ve already made. 

These powerful, intimate group calls have been life-changing for many gay men. 

● Get personalized feedback and guidance on your dates or relationships, and learn what you can do to move forward in a positive direction 

● Learn from other men and get inspired as they celebrate their victories 

● Feel love and support from other gay men who care both about you and your progress


● Celebrate and acknowledge where you’re utilizing high vibe energy 

● Pinpoint where you are blocking yourself with low, negative energy 

● Catapult your awareness in how you’re operating 

● Leave with a clear understanding of what you can do to quickly improve your life


Going through this step-by-step system will change your life forever. These materials give you the foundational knowledge and tools EVERY gay man should have who wants to have the lasting, passionate, relationship his heart desires. 

● Overcome fears driven by rejection, judgment, trust issues, and more 

● Build unshakeable confidence in who you are as a gay man and romantic lover, no matter your age, background, or appearance

● Build lasting, meaningful relationships and keep the passion alive with your romantic partner, once you attract him. 


WE HAVE OVER 100+ SUCCESS STORIES AND COUNTING...

"I've made more progress in this program in just three and a half months than I did in 10 years of therapy."

George Allen

"My fear around going on dates is diminished. I'm more present. I'm more attentive and I feel like I'm more in tune to the world around me."

Brent Hoffman

"I'm in my first relationship with a man and it's pretty awesome. I never really thought I could feel this way, feel as confident as I am."

Brian Delaney

"I have a lot more self confidence than I've ever had before and I feel a lot more strength in myself that I didn't really know existed."

Ted Smith

 "Since joining this program with Zach and Andrew is I have gone on more dates than I had before."

Jesse Matthews

"I am happy to say that five months into the program, I actually am in the dream relationship that I've been looking for my whole life."

Rob Metzen

"I'm so much happier now. I'm more confident, I'm more secure, and I'm more independent than I've ever been."

John Hanbury

"I'm showing up better, I'm showing up happier, and I'm showing up more open. I get to live in the moment."

Craig Brucato

"I've been offered solutions and encouraged to try things along the way. I'm not afraid to engage with people here and there and everywhere."

Jody Dalton

Here are just a few of the things that guys have been able to accomplish in the Gay Man Thriving Coaching Academy:

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Don't Just Take it From Us...

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Who is Energetic Attraction Coaching for?

● If you’re tired of being single or having a track record of one crappy relationship after another... 

● If you WANT support from the BEST Gay Dating & Relationship Coaches out there... 

● If you’re ready to learn new concepts, strategies and ideas and are WILLING to step outside of your comfort zone... 

...Energetic Attraction Coaching is for YOU!

Phase 3: Building Lasting, Passionate Connections 

Energetic Attraction System Videos, Handouts, Worksheet assignments, and Training 


WHO WE ARE

ZACH BULLS & ANDREW SARTORY

Andrew Sartory, M.Ed.

Zach Bulls, PCC, CPC, ELI-MP

This isn’t just a coaching program.

As soon as you join Energetic Attraction, you’ll get access to a wealth of dating resources AND an entire community that’s here to support you as you step into the relationship of your dreams…

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“Energetic Attraction Coaching has completely changed how I feel about things. Now I’m speaking to more guys than I ever thought I would.”

Daniel Harris

“Only being in the program for a few days, I've learned this is going to be very beneficial for me. Energetic Attraction can help me!”

Leon Wilborn

“In the Energetic Attraction Program I’m breaking down walls and coming to the place of realization that I do matter and that I have incredible value.”

Will Stevenson

“There's so many possibilities out there. If I’m at a low energy, I have the power to bring that energy up. I'm not going to be dragged along in low energy.”

Peter Leek

“I'm only just over a month in, but it is probably one of the best decisions I've ever made in myself, financially or otherwise, that I've ever done.”

Rob Overall

"I have more courage. I’m less judgmental. And I'm going on more dates. I'm not going to limit myself. And I was limiting myself before this."

Dan Roath

"I’ve been creating a wonderful new life for myself that's filled with joy, happiness, love, excitement and fun!  I’m in a brand new relationship!"

“Couldn't be happier about my decision to join the EAC program. It's a new journey at this stage in life. The community has been great."

Scott Burrus

Ron Lieberman

Tom Nelson

“I'm so excited to be part of the EAC family. I'm excited for the guidance and working on my issues and continuing my journey and growing as a gay man.”

“Besides the principles, teachings and the work we do in the Coaching Academy, I’ve found a tremendous brotherhood of kindred spirits and community in this program.”

“Since I've been involved with the program, I’ve found an incredible, loving, and authentic group of guys willing to share their stories, and inspire me to share mine with them.”

“In the Coaching Academy I found a high caliber of men searching for more meaningful connection in their lives. And I'm so grateful to be a part of it!”

Nick Mozak

Tim Coates

“Thanks to this program I learned I have to put myself first, that if I can’t take care of myself there’s no way I can take care of someone else!”

Victor Martel

"Because of my work in Energetic Attraction Coaching, I'm feeling a lot more positive and more energetically attractive to other people."

Hernan Garbini

“It’s amazing the changes I’ve seen so far, thanks to EAC! My energy levels are up, I’m feeling good, and I’ve even started dating again!”

Freddy Brabson

Ainge Lin

Jeff Moody

Adam Cohen

“After working through the program, I am considerably much more confident around other people in social contexts.  I don't carry around the anxiety and fear that I used to have.”

“Joining Energetic Attraction Coaching has been amazing, right from the beginning. I immediately felt this huge weight lifted, and started trying things I never would have dared try before!”

“Thanks to the EAC I see my value and speak up more freely in my personal and professional life, which I know will get me the happiness I deserve!”

Jamie Southerland

“After a few months in EAC, I have a totally different image of myself. I've now been dating the same guy since December. I've never been in a relationship for this long."

Warren Augustin

“This program transformed my life! If you’re wondering whether it can work for you, I promise you’ll have breakthroughs, find freedom, and live a life that you never imagined!”

Scott Bilodeau

“After working through the program, I feel lighter…like I can accept any situation, without having that fear of replaying some awful thing that happened before. I can just be me.”

Grant Miller